The bondage gear for those who enjoy being tickled with a feather, tied up or down, whipped, spanked or perhaps just blindfolded to enhance the other senses… here is our delightful array of bondage gear. If you are new to the business of bondage gear or BDSM toys and want to ensure safe and sexy play, refer to the SEX INFO tab above or browse for a book on techniques for safe play.

The following material is very closely based on the handout we give to the audience when we are invited to give an “BDSM For Beginners” presentation
at a location such as a college campus, erotic boutique, or similar location. It assumes that the reader has some basic interest but no prior education or experience in this matter.

BONDAGE GEAR Tips for Beginners

by Lady Green and Jay Wiseman

Note: Greenery Press publishes many educational non-fiction works dealing with BONDAGE GEAR or bdsm toys and other areas of sexuality. Several new titles are published each year.

BONDAGE GEAR is one of several overall names given to a collection of behaviors that involve bondage, spanking, domination, and other activities that are done in a safe, consensual, non-abusive manner and in an erotic context. BONDAGE GEAR is a form of erotic play that involves significant physical and emotional risks, and thus requires instruction in order to do so with reasonable safety. Accordingly, we make the following recommendations for beginners. Please understand that the bdsm toys below do not provide, nor are they meant to provide, complete instruction.

1. Do BDSM only with people you know well and are on good terms with, and when both of you are in a good mood. Trying to do it with strangers, or when either of you is tired or upset, dramatically increases the degree of risk. Avoid significant use of intoxicants. If you’re not in condition to drive, you’re not in condition to do BDSM.

2. Keep “reality” out of it. Unless both of you specifically agree to it ahead of time, BDSM play with bondage gear or BDSM toys is not a proper occasion to “punish” someone for a
“real world” offense. Unpaid parking tickets, dirty dishes left in the sink, and so forth get handled outside the BONDAGE GEAR play.

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